BDSM culture is not new. However, the rise of social media has largely contributed to abolishing borders, allowing tens of thousands of followers to interact via these platforms of online dating. Like other sites for couples dating like 3nderApp.org and AdultFriendFinder.com. This is the case of DoubleList, a site created in January 2008 by John Baku, a Montrealer now living in Vancouver. Carlotta is among the subscribers.
"DoublList.net is a mine of information. We were among the first users. It keeps us in touch with our circle of friends. We share everything, photos, stuff. Invitations for our parties, "says the dominatrix.
According to Carlotta, the site dedicated to alternative lifestyles, which is available only in English, has been an "important stimulant" to push him to push his limits as a BDSM sex follower. "To see something in a movie is often surreal. But when a person you know talks to you about what she's been through, about the new toy she's just ordered, it's something else. It's stimulating because there is interaction, you can ask questions to find out if it suits you. BDSM has made me blossom sexually even on general dating apps like Bazoocam.site , and it's obvious that DoubleList is there for something. "
According to Carlotta, the site dedicated to alternative lifestyles, which is available only in English, has been an "important stimulant" to push him to push his limits as a BDSM sex follower. "To see something in a movie is often surreal. But when a person you know talks to you about what she's been through, about the new toy she's just ordered, it's something else. It's stimulating because there is interaction, you can ask questions to find out if it suits you. BDSM has made me blossom sexually even on general dating apps like Bazoocam.site , and it's obvious that DoubleList is there for something. "
In addition to the virtual world, people who practice BDSM can also chat in person at the Community Center for Alternative Lifestyles (CCVA) in Montreal. A host of workshops are offered, ranging from bondage sessions to fetishism and flogging.
All in nuances ...
Carlotta has been a follower of BDSM for about ten years with her partner Boglacier. The teacher mentions having noticed a marked increase in the number of inscriptions on DoubleList since the publication of the trilogy of the author E. L. James Fifty shades of Gray. Ditto since the release of the film that is inspired, telling the story of Anastasia Steele, a 21-year-old virgin student who falls in love with Christian Gray, a multimillionaire with perverse and unbridled sexuality.
"The important thing is that people talk about BDSM so that it becomes less taboo. That they have an opening to discuss it as a couple or with their partner. With 50 Shades of Gray, it exploded on DoubleList, she says. The film is soft and it encourages many novices to try the experience. It's better this way."
